The first date is the most important. This is the first task in the quest for the "Perfect Relationship". There are many things that can ruin this experience for you and your date. If you follow these simple tips, you will be well on your way, doing just fine.
DO's:
-Be a gentleman! - This doesn't only mean you have to pick up the lady, but that you should also be polite, open the door for her, pay for the evening, defend her, lend your coat if she is feeling cold, and after the date escort her home.
-Defend your point of view - The girl is not going on a date with you so she can see a one time only perfect boyfriend, but to know more about you. If you don't agree with her, tell her your thoughts. Don't fight,just talk about it.
-Make her enjoy the date - Don't be a boring guy, talk with her, make little jokes, but don't go too far. Don't try to be funny if she doesn't like it, be yourself. 90% of girls find funny guys cute. Cute in girl language means you are doing perfectly.
-Be yourself! - If this date is good, she will want a second one. If you were acting cool on the first, and now you are boring and shy, she won't like you. Don't forget, Be Yourself.
-Bring new topics up! - Of course the first half an hour will pass fast, and you will have things to talk about, but if everything else fails bring up a new topic you like, maybe she likes that as well, you just don't know it yet.
DON'Ts:
-Don't forget her name! - This is the worst thing you can do. She will be mad if you call her on your mother's name.
-Don't talk about your Ex! - She doesn't care if you went to a swingers club, or if you had "xxx chat" on the internet. She is here to get to know you better, and not to listen to your Casanova history.
-Don't pretend your listening! - If she listened to what you had to say, be polite and listen to her as well. If she discovers that you are just pretending, and don't really care about her, she will leave or freak out.
-Don't talk too much! - Of course she wants to know you better, but no one wants to listen to someone talk about their hobbies for two hours. It's good to mention everything you like but really, don't go too far.
-Don't look down, LOOK IN HER EYE! - I know this tip is hard because we, men like "bazooms", but this is not the time to examine her gifts. Make eye contact, because she wonćt like it if she sees you peeking over her decolletage.
-Don't drink too much! - A little wine, or maybe a beer if that is what you like, and that's it! You are not on the first date to get drunk. This is another story. Right now you want to impress the girl, and not get into a fight because "you saw" that a guy looked at your "girl".
Of course if you don't like first dates and would like to cut to the chase, stick to online dating. www.xxxalley.com is a great adult community website for that. You can jump into webcam chat, adult chat or even online sex.
Monday, 6 June 2011
DO's and DON'Ts on the First Date for Girls
There are many things that can go terribly wrong if you are on a first date with a guy you don't really know. If you follow these simple tips, they can save you from many bad things.
DO's:
-Be nice. - You can't even imagine how much courage it takes for a guy to ask you out for a date. He will be nervous, and he will try his best to impress you. The worst thing for a guy on the first date is to disappoint you. A little compliment about his hairstyle or his clothing is really good for him. It will make him relaxed and he will open, but don't lie, you don't want to take him into a dream world.
-Dress up! - Of course guys would love to see you half naked, but not on the first date. The first date is so you get to know each other better, so unless you want to spend the night watching a guy staring at your breasts, pointing in excitement, wear something that shows, but not too much.
-Let him pay. - Guys will pay for the evening. They love providing. If you try to pay for the evening it will make them feel bad. They will think that you don't want to see them again, and that you just don't want to be rude. Even if you do want to see them again. Let them pay, they know they have to.
-Comfortable > Sexy. - I'm talking about the underwear. In most cases the first date will not end in the same bed, so why not be comfortable throughout the night? This tip is of course unless you want to have sex on the first date, which won't last to a good relationship.
-Be positive! - If it starts to rain and you are outside, don't blame it on your date. He is not in the charge to make it stop. Look at the bright side of things.
DON'Ts:
-Don't be afraid of new first date ideas! - There are guys who don't prefer to go to a movie, or take you out to a restaurant. They might invite you to their house for a homemade dish. Don't reject the date because you don't like the idea. Go to the date, and try out new things. If you don't like the evening, leave early, which leads us to the next tip...
-Don't stay because you don't want to be rude! - If you don't like the date, call an end to it early. Even if the guy will feel bad about it, it's still better to leave than fight. If he wants to take you to an other location, but you don't enjoy his company, leave.
Don't be afraid to brake the "First Date Rules"! - If you like him, and you would like to talk with him again, call him. He will appreciate that he doesn't have to make the first step again.
Hope, these tips will help you out on the first date. If you are more interested in online dating, head over to www.xxxalley.com, where you can start to webcam chat, or xxx chat with amateurs or professionals all around the world through the internet.
DO's:
-Be nice. - You can't even imagine how much courage it takes for a guy to ask you out for a date. He will be nervous, and he will try his best to impress you. The worst thing for a guy on the first date is to disappoint you. A little compliment about his hairstyle or his clothing is really good for him. It will make him relaxed and he will open, but don't lie, you don't want to take him into a dream world.
-Dress up! - Of course guys would love to see you half naked, but not on the first date. The first date is so you get to know each other better, so unless you want to spend the night watching a guy staring at your breasts, pointing in excitement, wear something that shows, but not too much.
-Let him pay. - Guys will pay for the evening. They love providing. If you try to pay for the evening it will make them feel bad. They will think that you don't want to see them again, and that you just don't want to be rude. Even if you do want to see them again. Let them pay, they know they have to.
-Comfortable > Sexy. - I'm talking about the underwear. In most cases the first date will not end in the same bed, so why not be comfortable throughout the night? This tip is of course unless you want to have sex on the first date, which won't last to a good relationship.
-Be positive! - If it starts to rain and you are outside, don't blame it on your date. He is not in the charge to make it stop. Look at the bright side of things.
DON'Ts:
-Don't be afraid of new first date ideas! - There are guys who don't prefer to go to a movie, or take you out to a restaurant. They might invite you to their house for a homemade dish. Don't reject the date because you don't like the idea. Go to the date, and try out new things. If you don't like the evening, leave early, which leads us to the next tip...
-Don't stay because you don't want to be rude! - If you don't like the date, call an end to it early. Even if the guy will feel bad about it, it's still better to leave than fight. If he wants to take you to an other location, but you don't enjoy his company, leave.
Don't be afraid to brake the "First Date Rules"! - If you like him, and you would like to talk with him again, call him. He will appreciate that he doesn't have to make the first step again.
Hope, these tips will help you out on the first date. If you are more interested in online dating, head over to www.xxxalley.com, where you can start to webcam chat, or xxx chat with amateurs or professionals all around the world through the internet.
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